My Experience Dating Colombian Women in Medellin. I have been on a quest to find my perfect Colombian woman match.
In this post I go over my experience: what works best and what doesn’t. Halloween in Medellin is fun.
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Medellin women are beautiful, and word is spreading pretty much around the world. Therefor, I have decided document my experience. I have been dating Medellin for over 5 years now. I had to learn everything from experience, and it’s been a blast. NOTE: I wrote this post about my experience dating women in Medellin back in April of 2. Over the past 5 years I’ve dated many Colombian women and I frequently update this post. Places frequented by tourists in Medellin are more saturated with foreigners than before.
Hot Medellin girls are not the sole reason for this rise in tourism to “The City of Eternal Spring”, but it is definitely up there. I am aware of the underworld of sex tourism in Colombia and I am aware that there are many strip clubs, and brothels in Medellin.
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Strippers and hookers are not the type of girls that I date, so I will not be referring to that in this post. My Unique Perspective on Dating Medellin Women. I look Colombian!
My situation is a little different than most foreigners here in Colombia. I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2.
I have lived my entire life, barring the past 5 years of course, in Southern California. At first glance Medellin women do not perceive me as a foreigner due to the way I look. It is an immediate sense of curiosity that some Colombian women have upon meeting a foreigner. Most of my close friends here in Medellin are foreigners and I have seen girls break their neck checking them out as we walk down the street. So I do not get that immediate attention here in Medellin. This is a big plus for me here because I’m naturally outgoing and funny, so I can really be myself when speaking Spanish.
It is hard for one’s true personality to translate when speaking another language, but luckily I am a fluent Spanish speaker, and have learned enough Paisa slang to be my witty self. I have found that Medellin women, as in most parts of the world, love compliments and like it when a guy can make them laugh. This has proven to be essential for me when picking up women in Medellin. How I Meet Women in Medellin. Meeting women in Medellin is not hard. Portland Dating Asian American. Socially, women are a little different than the southern California women I was used to picking up. Nightclubs in Medellin.
Drunken beauties. It is not usual for women in Medellin to go out by themselves just to let loose.
Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a bar or a nightclub in a group, and there will be guys in that group usually. For an emasculated man from the United States this is a nightmare. Penetrating that group of friends, playing “the game” in order to get to your “target girl” is hard work, and sometimes does not work if you don’t speak Spanish well enough for her to understand. Many guys who come to Colombia cannot pick up girls in their own native language let alone in Spanish and some even have the audacity to say that the women here are just “gold diggers” or “too difficult” and that is not accurate at all. Here in Medellin you do NOT need to play that game. Medellin nightclubs are for dancing, so it’s very easy to go up to a woman in a noisy disco, put out your hand, gesture for her to take it, and start dancing.
I do this often, and many times I will dance one or two songs without even saying a word. Imagine, our hands are on each other’s bodies before even knowing each other’s names. More often than not I’m not even interested in talking to the girl; I just want to dance and have fun. I get in there and leave silently.
Amazingly, when I do that women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing. It is not about being petulant or rude, it’s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.)2. Living life in Medellin. Medellin is awesome, I have more girl friends than guy friends. I meet women in Medellin by just living my life.
Every day I see gorgeous women walking up and down the street. Do not even get me started on the gym, it is almost like a circus sideshow in there. Seeing beautiful women here is so common that Colombian men don’t even turn to look, it’s ridiculous. I’ve been here 5 years and I’m still floored at some of the women in my gym! On the street I am usually attracted to women who look as if they are on their way to an office job. This type of woman works a lot so it’s not easy to wrangle them down and have them go out with you often, and for me, that’s perfect because I too am always busy.
In Medellin you will also find a lot of beautiful, smart women who have their own business or work independently. Being an entrepreneur my self this is a trait that I fancy. Paisas are generally very proud, generous people and this “professional woman” is no exception. Teaching English. Valentina is a cutie and smart. She’s currently learning English.
I teach English here in Medellin. Though dating students in Medellin is not uncommon and sometimes not even frowned upon, it is definitely not acceptable in the United States, so I draw a line and never cross it. I am the leader in my classes and dating a student can get messy; I can lose all credibility and position in class, so I avoid it all together. I do however go out with groups of students and/or colleagues in order to make friends and meet new people. Students will add me on Facebook and then their friends and cousins will add me.
That has served to be an abundant source of women here in Medellin. Facebook is huge here, and striking up a conversation via facebook messenger after being added is not hard. Women in Medellin are Shy. This was a new friend I made and decided to pick up for the picture at Carnaval de Barranquilla. Dating For Orlando Professionals here.
Most Medellin girls are pretty shy by nature. I had to include it because I meet far too many guys that are just clueless. So let’s go over some fashion faux pas (the don’ts) first. Colombian Men Fashion Don’ts: Don’t wear flip- flops (open toed shoes) if you want to pick up girls in Medellin.
It’s ok on the coast, but here in Colombia, for some reason, women think it is gross. Don’t wear shorts. During the day it’s okay, as long as they are not board shorts (beach shorts). Stylish shorts that come down to the knee or just above work well. It can get very hot during the day in Medellin, yet the majority of local men wear pants. Do NOT wear shorts to go out clubbing at night, they will not let you in. Melissa over at Medellin Living wrote a great piece on men’s fashion in Medellin.
Colombian Men Fashion Do’s: Do groom. This means plucking your nose and ear hair. The nicely groomed half- beard is in these days, so that’s ok.
Do shave your arm pits. I still don’t do this, but you will not meet a Colombian guy that doesn’t, hence many Colombian women expect this. In fact many shave their arms and sometimes legs too.
I still think it’s pretty. As long as your not super hairy you’re fine.
Do tuck your shirt in when you go to a fancy club. Again, this is something that I do not do, but local males do this and women respond to it. Do take a shower. You will not get laid if you stink. Do brush your teeth. Colombians are obsessed with teeth. If you’ve got nice teeth this can be a great defining quality to women here.
Do wear cologne. They love that here. Most local guys douse themselves in it. Do look sharp at all times. I’ve gotten in the habit of looking decent at all times, even when going to the gym or basketball practice. I’ll always carry an extra shirt, toothbrush, deodorant and body spray.
When it comes to Dating Agencies I personally have never used one, therefore, I have no recommendations, I do know that there are a few out there that do a good job. I’ve met guys that have used them and have met great girls. In my opinion, it’s a great way to meet women without having to do too much work, also if your Spanish is limited, I can see how it can get your foot in the door. But just like anything else, at the end of the day, it’s just you in front of that girl, hence it’s all up to you and your personality.
Colombian Cupid. I buckled down last year and got a Colombian Cupid dating site account (disclaimer: I’m not trying to push Colombian Cupid; that’s annoying. If you’re not interested in hearing my experience on the site just scroll down.)I never felt the need to get an account because I meet so many people through my language exchanges and just living my life here in Medellin. Nevertheless, I subscribed for 3 months and gave it a whirl. In 3 months I went on about 2.
Colombian Cupid. It was pretty amazing. Out of the 2. 0 I became friends with 8 of the girls and we still hang out. I found that the key to “matching” was to build out my profile really well. What does that consist of? Picture – I had a great picture taken by my photographer friend, that’s the one I use as a profile picture.
The other 4 pictures are pictures of me doing the things I love to do: playing basketball, watching Colombian soccer matches, having fun with friends, teaching, etc. Description – I’m a very blunt and honest person.
In my profile description I wrote about myself in that way. Stating that I am from California, but that I am Colombian, that I am always busy working, playing on my basketball team, and exploring Colombia. I wrote this in both English and Spanish.
What I want – In the part that asks what I’m looking for I was very straightforward. My ideal girl is someone that will motivate me and inspire me every day. If your profile says “soy una princesa” please do no contact me.’My Colombian Cupid Profile. Once I had my profile built out over 9. I started messaging. I’m in sales, therefore, it’s all in the numbers.
I’m not a handsome blue- eyed, blond- haired guy so I know my strength is my gift of gab. So I made a goal to message 1. At first, I started by writing a funny, short message. That bombed for me.